The truth about why men look and crave other women....

Many women will forever be baffled about why men constantly feel as if though they need to have more than one woman in their life (even if that woman is treating him amazingly well). Well, it's quite simple and can be explained through the metaphor of "cars".  As most women are aware, men typically love cars. Some men are really into them, and love to work on them, and get greasy and dirty, while others merely love to look at them and admire and drive them. However, it is safe to say that most women have encountered at least one man who absolutely loves the idea of having a nice car, and will go to great lengths to obtain one. This is why many women correlate keying a man's car or in some way shape or form damaging a man's vehicle as striking at the object of his affection and a way to "hurt him" like he hurt her.  Now that we've established this, equate this connection that men have to cars to the same love and affection many men have for women. Most men love their woman to a much higher degree than he loves his respective car (and logically so). However, just as a man loves his car, and is often both proud and unconditionally connected to that vehicle, he also loves to look at, test drive and even own multiple other vehicles. getting back to a man's desire to test drive, view, appreciate and own multiple vehicles it stems from this. Most men are visually motivated, and when he sees a beautiful car, it doesn't matter whom the owner is, he simply appreciates and "lusts" after the vehicle. In some instances, he would simply love to test drive it, as he knows he cannot afford the car payment, the insurance, the gas or other expenses connected to it. In some instances, he simply wants to gaze at it, because he loves the rims or the paint job, and is absolutely enamored by the attention to detail it has. In even other instances, he knows that he has the monetary income to support actually owning or leasing that other vehicle, so he elects to make the decision to not only admire it, but test drive it and purchase it as well (if even temporarily). Finally, there are some men who are simply collectors of vehicles, and make it their life's work to collect as many vehicles as they possibly can (i.e. see Jerry Seinfeld and Jay Leno as prime examples of the actual vehicle collectors).  Most men will also never become satisfied with merely their one vehicle. Most will aspire to have a collector's edition car which they take the utmost care of, and only take out on the weekends, and give all of their love and attention to, but will also seek to have a practical vehicle which they utilize regularly, and use daily. However, in spite of the number of vehicles any man has, he's always going to look, gawk and ogle at any beautiful car that he sees riding down the street as he's driving. It's not out of disrespect for the vehicle he has, but merely his inherent affinity and appreciation for beautiful things and people.  This is exactly the same for women as they relate to men. Men simply are intoxicated and entranced by beautiful women (there's no getting around it). Some are really into them, while others are merely into them for the sake of getting from point A to point B. Thus, if you're interested in finding a man whom will be faithful to you, and is great husband material, ask him whether or not he would love to have multiple cars, and is really into having several of them for the sake of having them? If he says yes, then there is a strong likelihood he is probably not the exclusive monogamy type, and is someone who will struggle to remain faithful. However, if he says, I'm not really into cars, and although I would like to have a nice one someday, ultimately all a vehicle is for is to get me from point A to point B, then rest assured that he has the mindset of someone who will do well in a marriage and be exclusively monogamous, as he doesn't operate with his desires and yearnings, but instead with his logic and rationale, and is a great candidate for marriage (and faithfulness within that marriage).  Like with all of my blogs, this is merely the truth as interpreted by me, and I am not a doctor or psychologist who has studied the mind of the male, but I am a woman who has had several conversations with other women, and have observed the actions and behaviors of a lot of men, so if something doesn't make sense or sound right, then feel free to chime in with your perspective, and I'd love to converse! Enjoy!!!!