He's just not that into you....

We've all seen the movie but let's discuss the title for a moment. Have you ever dated a guy who you were gaga over and it seemed like he didn't give a rats ass about you. Oh, I know ladies because I dated this guy for six months. I worshipped this guy. I did things for him that I wouldn't normally do. For example I waxed my va jay jay, legs and learned how to play the piano because he told me, he thought it was sexy and a turn on if a girl could play the piano. I just wanted to impress him and feel loved. All along I was losing my identity to become someone who I'm not just to win over a guy who wasn't really into me but into the person he thought he could change me to be. It was hard for me to walk away, but I had no choice. I'm sure we've all dated that guy that lied to you just to get you in bed. I call them " mindinizer" ... no need to Google or look up the definition. Because it's a word I created to define the men that prey on women looking for marriage, long term relationships, or just a commitment. It starts off with, what are you looking for in a man? We blatantly pour our heart out to these guys not knowing that their taking everything we say and their using our own descriptions to get us to fall for them long enough to get us into bed. Be wary of them. And last but not least Ladies. If he's just not that into you then find someone who is. It's too many men in this world to be focused on someone like that. I call them Fuckboys because no real man would treat a lady like that.