How to Save a Life (read at your discretion)

Well most of you would know that title because of " the Fray" my favorite band. In this blog i am not talking about saving a"A life" but saving your's from a bad relationship. It's been a while since I've been on here and I'm back to tell you all  about my journey and what's been going on with me. I have found the man of my dreams and with that comes great sacrifices. I lost my freedom for a couple of days and I nearly lost my mind. His mom didn't like me and still to this day doesn't want us to get married, my family insists
that he is not the one for me and he is ruining my life. I disagree with both parties, his mom and my family, I think that you would have to spend time with someone before you can judge them. The same example goes for a book, one would have to read a book before assuming it is a great one or flushing it down the toilet. A great critic never bashes someone or something before seeing, tasting, and exploring what their criticizing. My relationship with my fiance' has been a journey for the both of us, he is white and I'm black. I love white men, especially those with red hair. Yes he is a ginger kid. lol!!! And we are very much in love. Okay back to my title "How to save a Life" Relationships are not easy, some are meant to be broken and some are meant to be submissive. That's right in order to have a great relationship you will have to give in and let your mate think they have won an argument, video game, puzzle, game of checkers and the list goes on and on. Everyday I think of my relationship as a challenge, why? some of you all might say. Simply because love fades. YES! love fades and to keep your love from fading this beautiful earth one must remain updated and fresh. Ladies keep your clothes, hair , shoes and body looking good even if you have a couple of rolls and we do. Men don't care about what we care about, Men seem to find the things we call small or simple to be the Biggest things to him. Like kissing him, holding his hand, saying I love you frequently; Those things. Not what shoes am I wearing or did he notice my designer hand bag. Snooze it or Lose it Gals! News flash: men also enjoy oral sex. YES! I said it! Oral sex! And if you refuse to give it to him, he will go and find it somewhere else eventually. So get on those knees and please, please, please. I have read about it and tried it out also, and trust me it's not so bad. Just work on your gag reflex and try not to bite. Men don't like that so much. Men also like it when you swallow their semen - it makes them feel great and the taste isn't so bad. It won't kill you and it's good protein. I fight with my fiance' every night about little things, but at the end of the day, he is my best friend and my lover. Well, that's it for now I will return with more. Peace and Love.

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