Why is it so hard to get a guy to marry you???

Men now a days are afraid to commit to one female, because they feel as if they would lose their man hood and freedom. I would have to say they are afraid of committing to one person forever. I don't believe in shacking or roommate's (male) roommate's cause it just confuses the whole situation and getting him to marry you. If you want a guy to marry you there has to be some boundaries and ultimatums, such as: making him move out if he is not ready to commit to you, saying you all should have an open relationship or see other people for awhile. By saying those things it kinda wakes the guy up to reality and a mind check that he might lose you forever and if he cares he would make a suggestion that make since for the both of you. Men feed off of our reactions if you go nonchalant about the whole dating other people thing he would be upset and rethink the marrying issue but on the other hand if you freak out and cry saying "I LOVE YOU" and i want us to have a family and be together forever, he will just take you for granted and walk away and he is not ready to settle down yet. He needs some time to think about what you said and we'll go from there. So now he knows if he leaves you it will be your fault and not his on getting him to commit to you. Just play hard to get and i promise you he will bend over backwards to do what ever you want him to do. If that takes seeing another guy to get him jealous and make him settle down then so be it. But in the end you will have your man and the ring on your finger....